MAKE UP YOUR MIND
Acharn Tippakorn Sukhito
(Translated by Brigitte Schrottenbacher)
There is no greater
happiness than a calm mind. A mind that is calm - is the greatest happiness.
Good examples are the two chief-disciples of the
Buddha - Phra Sariputta and
Phra Moggallana. When they
where young men with the name Upatissa and Kolitta, they tried to find happiness. They tried it in
every way. They enjoyed all sensual pleasures possible - but they could not
find lasting happiness. So they decided to ordain as ascetics. They practiced
what their teachers told them, to the highest possible level - but still no way
out of suffering was found.
So they decided to separate
and go their way and if one of them would find real happiness - he would tell
it the other one.
One day Upatissa
saw a monk on his alms-round. This monk was not like anybody else he'd ever seen
before. He walked so composed and mindfully. Faith arose in Upatissa's
heart. He followed the monk on his alms-round and then took his bowl to a
suitable place and prepared a seat for him to take his meal. After he cleaned
the bowl for the monk and respectfully asked him who his teacher was and what Dhamma his teacher had taught him.
The monk - it was Phra Assajji, one of the first
five disciples that the Buddha taught in the
Upatissa told him that he doesn’t need much, only a
little Dhamma will do. Then Assajji told him that the Buddha taught the suffering and it's cause and that one has to extinguish this cause.
Only these few words where
enough to let the light of the Dhamma arise in
Upatissa’s heart. He became a stream-entree (Sotapanna).
A meditator
has to be mindful. He/she has to know all the time, what is the cause - why he
can’t gain calmness of mind and knowing why there is calmness. Knowing what
causes one not to be calm and extinguishing this cause. He will see it's
because the mind is wandering outside of one's body. The mind thinks about past
and future, about family and home, about work and all kind of problems - it
doesn’t want to stay with the body. Hindrances like tiredness and laziness arise
because the mind wanders to the outside.
So we have to stop the cause
for all of this suffering. We have to fix the mind on the body. We stay with an
easy, relaxed and open mind within our body. We try to be perceptive and we try
to know. Use whatever object in the body is clearer for you - be it knowing the
breathing in and out at the nostrils, or be it the knowing of the rising and
falling movement of the abdomen while breathing.
For some it may be the five
objects of contemplation (panca kammatthana) like: hair on the head, hair of the body,
nails, teeth and skin. Or it might be the 32 objects of recollecting one's
body.
However, important is that
one stays within one's body.
Having a calm mind is the
greatest merit we can have. Having a cool and calm mind is having a meritorious
mind.
If we practice like that
often, then we will gain a strong mind. People with a strong mind are able to
let go and not getting too attached to things. Whatever contact may happen, be
it our eyes seeing a form, our ears hearing sounds, our nose smelling a smell,
our body feeling tangible objects, our tongue experiencing taste or our mind
thinking thoughts - the meditator stays with a strong
detached mind. Knowing this things arise - stay for a while - and then they disappear.
They are born in the mind and they will cease in the mind.
Happiness arises - we know,
suffering arises - we know. Both arise in the mind and stay for a while and then
cease. Usually we get attached to these things, they arise, - we cling to them
and start to build up more mental formations and that increases the heat in our
hearts. We really have to make our mind strong - we have to train it to be
strong.
Some people say meditation
is just sitting around and closing the eyes. They don't know - but we know.
There are permanently contacts
happening on our sense doors (ayatthana) and
the mind door. While one sits, there are contacts at the mind-door, we call them "Dhamma-arammana”.
There might be thoughts about the past and the future or there are hindrances
arising. We have to face them and try to cut them off. If we can do this then
the mind will become strong.
Whatever contact arises at
one of our sense doors (ayatthana) we will
have a strong mind and will be able to let go. We will be able to keep a cool
and detached mind. This is practicing "Kammatthana"
in a correct way. We know whatever contact arises - it stays for a while and
then it has to disappear.
One will know everything is
impermanent and everything that is impermanent is suffering. Because it is
impermanent one understands that it can’t be a self (a self should be something
that is not changing - it's something permanent). The meditator
will see that there is nothing to be found, which is not subject to arising and
ceasing. There is no one to be found - whether oneself nor someone else. This
is anatta - non-self.
There is no other religion
teaching about anatta. Only Buddhism teaches
about anatta - the non-self. So every time we
practice meditation we can be proud and joyful because we know we are on the
right path. We have confidence in the Buddha and his teaching (Dhamma) and in those that practiced and realized his
teaching (Sangha). We have confidence in the
triple gem.
Our mind is not as weak as
this body is. We think of the Buddha, the Dhamma
and the Sangha and of their virtue. This will
increase our mental strength and we will not be weak.
We are confident that the Dhamma which the Buddha realized and taught is the
real Dhamma, the Ariyadhamma,
the Dhamma of the
noble One's. Whoever follows and practices that Dhamma
will know the truth and see the truth.
The witnesses for this truth
are those noble One's who have followed the teaching and realized it. They saw
the truth and know the truth and became enlightened One's (Arahant)
- those who understood the four noble truths (Ariyasacca).
When the Buddha taught the Dhammacakkapavatana Sutta for the first time in the deer
park near Benares he taught it to the five ascetics
who where his attendants while he was practicing strict austerity. The first
thing He taught them was the truth of suffering (dukkha).
A meditator
should not escape or try to avoid suffering. The Buddha taught that a meditator should know whether suffering arises from the
body or from the mind. If suffering arises in the body, what goes on in the mind?
If suffering arises in the mind does it have an effect on the body? For some -
suffering arises in their body but their mind doesn’t suffer. For some
suffering arises in the mind and they let their body suffer too.
That's why the Buddha wants
us to see the suffering very clear, to know suffering very well. We should see
suffering to its utmost level.
What the Buddha wants us to
escape from, what He wants us to cut off, is the cause of suffering (Samuddhaya).
What now is the cause of
suffering?
We have a head that lets
headaches arise.
Why do we have
stomach-aches? Because we have a stomach.
Why do we have pain in our
legs? Because we have legs.
That means suffering arises
because this body is born and because there is this mind (citta).
There is birth, then the thing lasts for a while - which is when we experience
pain and suffering - and then it ceases.
So we have to stop birth.
We should not fear the
suffering. If we sit in meditation and we experience pain - we should watch
that pain. We are aware of the suffering. We know there is pain, drowsiness -
whatever suffering we experience. We know that suffering arises in the body and
watch what the mind feels. We will see that the mind experiences disliking,
unpleasantness, it is not calm. We try to have patience and endurance and if we
are really not able to endure it, then we change the posture and watch the
unpleasant feeling - how does it change, when we change our posture? We watch
it and we will see how it ceases.
That’s how we can see
feelings arise and cease. If we are mindful like that then the permanent
changing of postures, which we usually do, is not hiding the truth suffering
anymore.
If we do so, we will
understand the teaching of the Buddha in which he mentioned that there is only
suffering in what arises, only suffering in what stays for a while and
suffering in what ceases.
I give you one example,
which should make it clearer. We are hungry. When we are hungry we need to eat
and drink. Hunger is suffering. But some people do not know hunger. Whenever
the time comes they eat and drink. But if we are mindfully watching our body
and mind, then we will see hunger is suffering. We will see when we eat and
drink that we feel comfortable and happiness arises. So we can see hunger is
suffering when hunger disappears then we call this happiness.
When we feel hot and we move
into the shadow or take a shower - then we feel comfortable. Again we see too
much heat is suffering, we do not feel comfortable. Happiness arises when the
suffering ceases, in this case when we move from a hot to a cool place.
So, wherever a meditator goes - he or she will be aware of feelings, which
arise. They will know if they experience happiness and will see this happiness
ceasing. They will know suffering and they will see it ceasing.
If we practice like this -
we won't get attached to happiness and pleasant feelings, knowing their
impermanence; - we won't get lost and deluded from happiness. Too much
happiness can make people deluded and foolish, whereas suffering can help
people to understand better and to develop wisdom.
Suffering is usually a very
clear experience - like a child touching something hot - you might tell the
child it should not touch it, but it will only believe it, when it has the
painful experience of touching it.
So we practice continually
and the wisdom arising from suffering will make our mind clearer and clearer
and one will keep it in mind.
When we practice we can see that
sometimes the mind is calm, sometimes it is not calm. We want it to be calm but
we can’t force it. The mind wanders here and there - you can't trust it. Those
who believe in the mind can get mad. We need mindfulness and we need to
contemplate the arising and the cessation of phenomena. We see things arise -
stay for a while and then cease.
That’s how we learn to
understand that everything is impermanent. Happiness arises, stays for a while
and ceases - seeing this we won't get too attached to happiness. Suffering
arises, stays for a while and ceases. Everything is impermanent. We are
impermanent too - why should we cling too much, why be so attached to others or
ourselves? We learn to let go. If we are able to let go - then we can
experience happiness for the rest of our life’s.
We suffer because of
attachment, we say this is mine that belongs to me, and this is me.
So, we have to meditate. As
a human being we should try to develop ourselves for the good. The highest goal
is the cessation of suffering. However much or little we do – important is we
do it. If we do not practice, we waste this good opportunity we have.
Don't forget - if we are
born as a human being and we only work to get food and material things but we
do not try to work on inner development, then we do not differ from birds or
rats and dogs. We try to get our food and when the time comes we produce
children and in the end we die.
If humans live their life’s just like that, then they do not differ from animals.
They are even worse then animals. Because humans are able to destroy much more,
steal, kill, tell lies and are able to do many unwholesome things which animals
wouldn’t. They are able to do and know good or bad.
That’s why we have morality
and meditation. With them humans can develop their mind to go to a higher
state. But one really has to work on it. If you make up your mind - to practice
sincerely - then you will achieve good results.